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The important point to be taken from Sofia and Dr. Wedajeneh's conversation!!

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I saw the interview of Sofia Shibabahu and Dr. Wedajeneh. They didn't look like divorcees. They conducted the interview with civility. They are commended for speaking with respect and gentleness.

Occasionally they use a defense mechanism. For example, when Dr. Wadajeneh explains why they don't get back together, "divorce has six stages. 1) Emotional divorce 2) Legal divorce 3) Property division 4) Co-parental divorce 5) Community divorce and finally 6) Psychological divorce. We're on the sixth, so we can't get back together." He said. This answer shows a defense called Intellectualization. If someone doesn't want to, they can come back and not be together. Or if he has irreconcilable differences, he says, "I don't want to explain, but we have differences, so we won't be together." To present scientific principle as reason rather than personal feeling is Intellectualization.

In another place, both of them said, "Even if we divorce, neither of our families will blame anyone. In fact, Sophie's family supports me, and my family supports her." He said. This 'criss cross' looks like heaven. Reaction formation can be a defense mechanism.

Anyway, the main point that I admire both of them and other divorced people should learn is to only tell their children good things about the other. No one wants to divorce. However, divorce occurs. When a divorce occurs, many couples worry about the well-being of their children. One of the most important things that keep children psychologically healthy during divorce is what you tell them about the other parent. Even if a husband and wife abuse each other, speaking good things about their father (mother) to their children is very important for children's psychological development. In this regard, Dr. Wedajeneh and Sophia are exemplary.

They showed that it is possible to talk with respect and maturity even after a divorce, and above all, it is possible to raise children with care for their psychology. Dr. Wedajeneh's calmness is amazing.